Everything learned from Psalm 1:1 makes perfect sense, especially considering that David was a lying, manipulative, murdering, adulterer. But this was written before all of that, in his wordly innocence. But David's not the real author , it's God-breathed Scripture and as such was perfectly fitting for David the man who put it on paper.
I often make the mistake of reading Psalms as a book of poetry, but they are prophetic as well. To miss their prophetic meaning would be to miss their relevance to your life entirely. If I missed what the Psalms are saying to me personally then I might as well be reading a book of poems by Robert Frost.
Psalms says to me personally that a blessed life comes frist from avoiding wrong counsel, conduct, and communications. Pslams begins by telling me the key to a blessed life. Isn't it amazing that that the longest book of the Holy Scriptures begins with how we can be blessed? Psalms 1 is prophetic in summarizing all of human history and man's all - relate with God and be blessed beyond description. It's beautiful. This book doesn't begin with God's greatness, His judgment, our failures. They begin with "blessed". God was divinely unselfish when he breathed this divine work to David. Perhaps for David, God was foreshadowing how David would sacrifice the blessedness of his kingdom for the a torrid affiar. David walked in unwise counsel by taking deliberate steps to arrange his rendezvous with his lover. He stood in the path of sinners by drawing in others to help him carry out the affair. After all do you think it possible for a king to do anything unnoticed?
David's first mistake was to send his armies out to do battle and then electing to stay home, in the rear with the gear as we say in the Army. In those days every king, even the bad ones commanded their troops in battle from the battlefield. In fact, Saul, David's predecessor was famous for the thousand's he'd killed. for David to remain away from the battlefield was unconscienable. Psalm 1:1 says not to stand in path of sinners. Can one like David remove himself from accountability, be one of only a handful of fighting age men remaining, and not be tempted? 2 Samuel 11:1 practically mocks David for staying behind by saying "...at the time when kings go out to battle...but David remained at Jerusalem." No wonder his temptation hit him in the very next verse while David was on his roof and just happened to see a gorgeous woman bathing. Though Scripture doesn't say specifically, you have to wonder that this wasn't Bathsheba's first bath, nor was this probably David's first trip up to check out the view from the roof. 2 Sam 11:1 says it was spring time. I wonder if David had seen Bathsheba (or other women) the previous summer or fall, then waited till spring to arrange it where he could be on the roof alone. Now on the roof (his path) scanning around, he finds what he was looking for. He then grabs others to help bring her to him.
David knew in advance that she was married. David's advisors knew she was married, yet went and got her anyway. Sometimes the ungodly counsel we obey is the counsel that overides that which was nver spoken. Eve just told Adam to eat. She didn't tell him about that little conversation she had with the talking snake. Would have been important to me, don't you think? Of course Adam knew not to eat, but he chose instead to heed the ungodly counsel of his wife. If only Eve had spoken up. If only David's advisor's had spoken up.
David's sin began before he slept with another man's wife. It even began before he plotted to have her brought to his home. Nor did it begin when he lusted after her on his roof. It began when he arose out of his comfy bed in his comfy house while his men were on the battlefield. Had he been where he was supposed to be, where it was his duty to be, he'd been incapable of performing that series of kingdom altering events.
Had he just followed the directions of Psalm 1:2 he'd been protected. Psalm 1:2 says that the blessed man has his delight in the law of the Lord and meditates on it day and night.
Since David wasn't on the field of battle with his men, what was his action saying to God? To find out, let's look at an almost exact example.
After the Israelites were freed and it was time for them to go in and capture the land God prepared for them, the people got cozy and comfortable with the status quo. Well we know what happened. Moses sent 12 spies to check it out and only two came back saying it could be captured. The Bible says this aroused the anger of God and resulted in 40 years of aimless wandering until all the generation except for Caleb and Joshua had died.
Well the time again came for them to seize what God had prepared for them and this time two of the twelve tribes wanted to stay on the east side of the Jordan river while the armies of the other 10 tribes readied for war. What was Moses' response about staying in the rear during the battle? "Shall your brothers go to war while you sit here?" (Num 32:6)
Moses knew the dangers of this unwillingness to wholly follow God. Moses called them a brood of sinful men that were about to increase still more teh fierce anger of God.
Chosing not to follow God is not just a lack of faith, nor is it mere cowardice. It's a slap in the face to God. It's spiritual conceit. It's saying "I've seen You orchestrate the thousands of events that have led to theis moment. I've clearly heard you say this is Your best plan for me, but I don't want it. Following You isn't worth leaving my scornful seat to grab what you've prepared for me.' No wonder God gets angry when we do that. The effects are a spritual double whammy too - we miss God's incredible blessing and then incur His anger on top of it. That's what David's decision to stay comfy did to him too. Only God knows who David would have married or what Israel could have been like had it not recevied the wrath of God on it.
The son David and Bathsheba bore was sentenced to die because of their sin. In fact, Scripture is huge about names and their significance and the meaning ascribed to one's name. What was David and Bathsheba's child's name? We don't know. Scripture doesn't even say. David missed the blessing entirely. Then God brought punishment by starting a bloody rift within his family and brought adultery into his family.
How did all this happen? By not delighting in the Law of the Lord and meditating in it day and night. Instead of starting his day with prayer and worship, David went on the roof to satisfy his eys. We can't avoud even as Psalm 1:1 says if we're not delighting in God's perfect law. The mind and soul always dwell on something and Scripture makes it clear that "As a man thinks, so is he."
So how do we delight in the law of the Lord? Psalm 119 is all about the excellence of God's Word and Law. The first action in it for us to do is to praise God. Shortly after that is memorizing Scripture; not rote memorization but hiding it in your heart. One of the most productive times of spiritual growth in my life was my most challenging. I was consumed by the problem at hand. It was eating me up. I couldn't sleep. Didn't want to eat. I was wasting away. I had to do something to distract my mind and began dedicating time to hiding God's Word in my heart by memorizing a verse here and there, until I had pages and pages of Scripture memorized. The ancient words began echo in my mind all the time. Instead of my problem floating up to my conscience, it was God's promises. I began to see life through the lense of these Scriptures and life began changing. I was soon able to advise people in similar circumstances using the counsel of these memorized words that aided me through my problem. It was a joy to meditate in His Word day and night because it transformed me through the renewing of my mind.
To meditate on God's Word you ponder it by talking about it to yourself. We can't naturally delight in God's Word. We need the help of the Holy Spirit to delight in it and understand it. When I tead the Bible and I'm just scanning words, absorning nothing, mind wandering, living unchanged, it's those times that I just pick up the Bible and read. I should always ask God to help me. Psalm 119:18 is a great verse to pray, "Open my eyes that I may see wondrous things from your Law." By delighting in His Law and asking for divine help, we can fulfill Psalm 1:1. Psalm 119:24 says that when we delight in His Word, it becomes our counselors, replacing the ungodly counsel of verse one.
Delighting in God's Word brings indescribable peace and contentment. For every event of life and every emotion there is Scriptural guidance. There is no topic for which the Word is silent. Though we will all experience pain and suffering, we will never be forsaken from God's love. Need a boost? Go to the Word. Need assurance? Consult your Maker. Feel alone and desparate? Delight in His Word and in His love.
One of the most stirring examples of one delighting in God's love is the song "The Love of God". The story says the poem was discovered upon it's author's death. He was confined to an insane asylum and had inscribed these words on the wall of his personal prison. Here's how he delighted in God's love:
"Could we with ink the ocean fill and were the skies of parchment made,
Were every stalk on earth a quill and every man a scribe by trade.
To write the love of God above would drain the oceans dry,
Nor could the scroll contain the whole,
Though stretched from sky to sky.
O love of God, how rich and pure,
How measureless and strong.
It shall endure forevermore
The Saints' and angels' song."
This man knew how to delight in God's Word!!
So there it is - how to be a blessed man. Basic and simple. Many books for sale about self help are titled "9 Secrets to Happiness" or "12 Steps to Whatever You Want". Christ's way is perfect. He is the way, the truth, and the life. One Savior. One way. Christ says "Come to me all you who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle, and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls, for my yoke is easy and my burden is light."